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Volume # 052 — Milan & Kay Yerkovich – Kay and Milan Yerkovich, authors of “How We Love” say our childhood experiences that leave imprints in our souls and develop our expectations about love determines our love style as adults. – November 28, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 051 — Starr & Bob Calo–oy – Bob and Starr will discuss and answer questions that have been asked of them over the past few months. Be sure to call in with your question. – November 21, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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Volume # 050 — Shirley Dudley – Shirley Dudley, author of “Blended Family Advice” e–book will discuss issues such as successful marriages, parenting issues, and helping kids acclimate to a stepfamily. – November 14, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: Shirley Dudley www.blendedfamilyadvice.com
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Volume # 049 — Jim Burns – Jim Burns of “Intimate Marriage” discusses the need for spiritual intimacy within couples despite the little attention given it. – November 7, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 043 — Paul Friedman – “Loyalty” – Paul Friedman, author of “Lessons for a Happy Marriage” emphasizes that people are disloyal to their spouses in ways they would never think about nor would they consider to be disloyal. Disloyalty is not only restricted to “cheating”. – September 26, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.lessonsforahappymarriage.com
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Volume # 042 — Starr & Bob Calo–oy – “Our Needs/Emotional Differences” – The Difference Between Men and Women – Men’s and women’s needs are different. By attending to those needs and not your own superimposed needs, you can build a great marriage. Leave guilt out of the relationship and don’t try to change one another. – September 19, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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Volume # 041 — Tim Kellis – Tim Kellis, author of “Equality: The Quest For The Happy Marriage” will tell us about Carl Jung. He was a psychologist who led the mental health community with the concept of CURING the mentally ill, not just treating it. Kellis will detail how that has application to solving the marriage crisis as well. – September 12, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.happyrelationships.com
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Volume # 040 — Bobby & Kasi Turner – Bobby and Kasi Turner came from two very different backgrounds. Bobby came from parents married over 50 years and Kasi from a broken home. Tune in for this discussion. – September 5, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 034 — Dr.’s Charles & Elizabeth Schmitz – “Golden Anniversaries – the 7 Secrets of Successful Marriage” – Authors: “Golden Anniversaries – the 7 Secrets of Successful Marriage” – This week’s guests, Dr.’s Charles and Elizabeth Schmitz of Successful Marriage Reflections, share their mission with us: to help reduce the all too high divorce rate in America and the resultant terrible costs in human tragedy and emotional devastation associated with marriages and relationships that fail. – July 25, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.southtowncommunitychurch.org
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Volume # 033 — Pastor Tim Westley – “Conflict in Marriage” – Any marriage, good or bad has conflict. Pastor Timmy Westley of Shepherd’s Vineyard Christian Church helps us to discover preventative measures for dealing with marital conflict, handling conflict that arises, and learn what the Bible has to say about it. – July 18, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: Shepherd’s Vineyard Christian Church www.svcc4you.com
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Volume # 032 — Irv Loev – “Conflict Means I Love You” – Irv Loev walks us through today’s economy and the marriage relationship. – July 11, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 026 — Tim Kellis – “Equality – Balance” – Returning Guest, Tim Kellis, author of “Equality, The Quest For A Happy Marriage,” joins us this week to discuss BALANCE. Balance your Ego, Balance your Self, Balance your Marriage, Balance your Life. – May 30, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.happyrelationships.com
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Volume # 025 — David & Laurie Miracle – David Miracle and wife, Laurie discussed the affects of addictions on marriage. David’s background in family dynamics of addiction will lend light to the devastation addiction can cause. But wait, addiction is not necessarily the be–all, end–all of marriage, it can be healed. – May 23, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 024 — Larry Abrams – “Domestic Violence, Substance Abuse, & Mental Health In Relationship To Marriage” – Larry has counseled for Over 30 years, nearly 18 of those years in the U.S. Army. His primary areas of expertise are domestic violence, substance abuse, and mental health. – May 16, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 023 — Victor & Gloria Casillas – “Roles of Women & Men” – The Different Roles of Men and Women – God made us differently. Trying to take over the other person’s role does not go over well in a relationship. We weren’t made that way. – May 9, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 022 — Steve & Linda McMillan – Steve and Linda lead a Life Group at CBC (Community Bible Church) called Parents of Prodicals. They are the first to tell you it is NOT your fault when things go wrong with your children. God was the perfect father to Adam and Eve and they failed miserably! – May 2, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 017 — Tim Kellis – “Equality – Setting the Foundation” – Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage – Codependency is when you are made important by what your partner does or doesn’t do or give you. They become the source of your self–esteem. – March 28, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.happyrelationships.com
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Volume # 016 — Michelle & Dave Dretke – “Fireproofing your Marriage” – Married for Life: CBC Cell Group Leaders, David and Michelle Dretke – Even when both couples are Christian, there can still be problems. It is important to keep you focus on God. It is not about what you or your spouse wants, but what God wants – where’s the argument there? – March 21, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 015 — Quinn & Tricia Westerman – “Celebrate Your Differences” – Celebrate Your Differences – Don’t try to change your spouse to be like you. If you were both the same, one of you would not need to be around. Don’t be so certain to have things you way, focus on having things God’s Way. – March 14, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 014 — Steve & Linda McMillan – “Prayer and Forgiveness” – It is important to pray with your spouse. Prayer is an important part of intimacy. Forgiveness and repentance are key to a good relationship. – March 7, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 009 — Steve & Linda McMillan – “Parents of Prodigals” – Steve and Linda lead a Life Group at CBC (Community Bible Church) called Parents of Prodicals. They are the first to tell you it is NOT your fault when things go wrong with your children. God was the perfect father to Adam and Eve and they failed miserably! – January 31, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 008 — Ruben & Sandra Fetchner – “Authority & Submission” – Tune in to hear this seasoned couple share important insight to God’s heart on the topic of authority & submission. You might be very surprised! – January 24, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 007 — Dr. Mark Rogers – “Marriage 101” – Relationship Rich Seminars – Don’t wait to get help for your marriage long after you know there is a problem. Realize that whether you chose the right mate or not, you have to grow yourself up to be the kind of mate you want your partner to be. Don’t ask God to change your mate, but to make you the best spouse you can be. – January 17, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 006 — Starr & Bob Calo–oy – “Our Needs/Emotional Differences” – The Difference Between Men and Women – Men’s and women’s needs are different. By attending to those needs and not your own superimposed needs, you can build a great marriage. Leave guilt out of the relationship and don’t try to change one another. – January 10, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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Volume # 005 — Mike & Angela Swain – “Building Self–Esteem” – The Importance of Communication – It is important to realize that the courtship that got you together pretty much ends when you marry. Always remember that God gave you your mate. Self–esteem can grow during your marriage. – January 3, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 056 — Howard Hovde – Author of “Families of the Bible” tells us that we can learn from the ways they coped with life for our lives today. – December 26, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 055 — Crystal Dwyer – Crystal Dwyer, author of “Pure Thoughts For Pure Results” asks, “How does our own messy thinking affect our marriage relationship?” – December 19, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 053 — Jonathan Daugherty – “Sexual Addiction on the Internet” – Jonathan Daugherty, founder of Be Broken Ministries, will be sharing on sexual addiction on the internet and pornography. Parental Guidance is advised. Please be sure to have little ones out of the room as this show will be graphic in nature. Plan on calling in to have your questions answered. – December 5, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.bebroken.com
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Volume # 048 — Richard Nicastro – “Major Challenges Couples Face” – Relationship Coach, Richard Nicastro will discuss major challenges couples face and some practical steps they can take to protect and keep their marriage strong. – October 31, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.strengthenyourrelationship.com
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Volume # 047 — Pastors Eddie & Betty Moore – We discussed the life that some call a fairy tale when someone else says “they live happily ever after”. Also we discussed the mystery of marriage in God and the seven keys words to unlocking the mystery; and how these seven key words relate to having a complete happy marriage and an everlasting life. – October 24, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 046 — Gavin MacCleod – Gavin MacLeod is known largely as ship’s captain in the 1970’s television series “The Love Boat” and also for his role in The Mary Tyler Moore TV Show. This morning he shares his personal story of love and forgiveness, and speaks of the film “Secrets of Jonathan Sperry” which he says is a tremendous gift to God’s children. A beautiful story of God’s love and forgiveness, and Gavin says that it is the most monumentally important film he has been involved in. – October 17, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 045 — Rich Christiano – Guest Rich Christiano, a self–declared American Christian filmmaker shares his marriage testimony. He also talks about “The Secrets of Jonathan Sperry”, a warm and beautiful story of love and forgiveness. – October 10, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 044 — Rick Reynolds – “Infidelity” – Affair Recovery Center – Will speak on infidelity and how to get past it. – October 3, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Author – “I Do Again”
Volume # 038 — Jeff & Cheryl Scruggs – Jeff and Cheryl Scruggs, authors of “I Do Again” discuss God’s plan for marriage and reconciliation, even after adultery and divorce. When you refocus on God, marriages can be healed. – August 22, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 037 — Emma K Viglucci – Emma Viglucci of Metropolitan Marriage & Family Therapy shares how to survive infidelity and create a satisfying relationship. Discover couples afflicted by infidelity. They are in a tremendous amount of pain and suffering that overwhelms them. Their relationship is put in serious jeopardy as they question their commitment to it and to each other. Can they move forward and heal from this profound betrayal? Emma helps them when they are at a loss as to how to move forward. They are in need of a safe, contained, and holding environment where they can deal with their feelings and cope. They seek to understand, “How could this happen to us?” Discover how to survive infidelity and create a wonderful and satisfying relationship. Find out what is going on and what to do about it. – August 15, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.metrorelationship.com
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Volume # 036 — Ron Deal – “A Peaceful Stepfamily” – Stepfamilies often face difficulties in combining their separate family members into one new family. Family therapist Ron Deal, author of “The Smart Stepfamily” avoids what he calls the myth of “blending” families. Instead, he concentrates on providing you with a game plan that will help you build a strong marriage with a peaceful stepfamily. – August 8, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.TheSmartStepfamily.com & www.successfulstepfamilies.com
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Volume # 035 — Pastor Art Guerra – “Emulating Biblical Marriage” – Art Guerra, Pastor of Calvary Chapel New Braunfels, reminds us that as Christians we are called to represent Christ in this world and to communicate His message of love and redemption. How do we do that in a world that is increasingly hostile to our message? The answer lies in the Biblical model for marriage. In Ephesians, Paul tells us that God chose marriage to represent Christ’s relationship to His church. That makes marriage an important component in demonstrating God’s love for His people. – August 1, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.cconb.org
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Author – “Growing Up Is . . . !!!”
Volume # 030 — Glen Bartholomew & Rob Carter – Is your marriage suffering from underlying immaturity issues? Don’t let them destroy your marriage. Glen Bartholomew will lead us to discovering the keys to greater happiness and contentment with his book, “Growing Up Is . . . !!!” He will walk us through immaturity and marriage affects.” – June 27, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 029 — Bob & Starr Calo–oy – “Marital Challenges” – Starr and Bob took some time to answer some questions that they have been asked in the past. They started the interview off by addressing marital challenges, stating that marriages can grow even in times of trouble. When hard times come, it is time to pull together rather than tear each other apart. – June 20, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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Volume # 028 — Bob & Starr Calo–oy – “Knowing Your Differences” – Knowing Your Differences: Starr and Bob are often asked questions about our differences and on this segment, they address them. We have all heard the saying that opposites attract. – June 13, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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Volume # 027 — Dave Dretke – “Importance of Married Couples and Bible Study” – During Bible study, we often learn more from other couples than from the lessons themselves. They create a safe place where you can be part of a group. – June 6, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 021 — Lynette Hoy – Lynette Hoy author of “What’s Good about Anger?” says there are some good things about anger. Righteous anger is good. It is anger about something that is truly wrong and must be fixed. – April 25, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.counselcareconnection.org & www.whatsgoodaboutanger.com & www.keepbelieving.org
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Volume # 020 — Tim Kellis – “Equality – Roles of Women and Men” – Tim Kellis tells us how to balance our ego and balance our life. There are different roles for men than there are for women. We should adhere to them to complete a happy marriage. – April 18, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.happyrelationships.com
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Volume # 018 — Kimberly Carter Schmittou – “Life Changing Communication Techniques” – Kimberly Schmittou describes mediation counseling as one where the counselor does not take anyone’s side in the family. The goal is a happy family for everyone. – April 4, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 013 — Kimberly Carter Schmittou – “Blended Families” – Blended Families – Marriages go through several stages from honey mooners to being grandparents. We now have more adult children coming home to raise their children. It is important for parents to set boundaries for their adult children to avoid stress. – February 28, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 012 — Victor & Gloria Casillas – “Roles of Women & Men” – The Different Roles of Men and Women – God made us differently. Trying to take over the other person’s role does not go over well in a relationship. We weren’t made that way. – February 21, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 011 — Tim Kellis – “Equality – 10 Steps” – Equality – the Quest for a Happy Marriage – Learn the 10 steps to spirituality to help you get there. – February 14, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.happyrelationships.com
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Volume # 010 — Kimberly Carter Schmittou – “Just Get Divorced!” – Divorce and Divorce Again – We live in a society that suggests if you’re not happy with this one, just divorce them and get another one. Addictions like porn, drugs, gambling, etc. can break–down a marriage. Often, when you change, your partner can’t help but to change. – February 7, 2009 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 004 — Victor & Gloria Casillas – “Leaving and Cleaving” – Leaving and Cleaving with Victor and Gloria Casillas. Genesis 2:24 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.” – December 27, 2008 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 003 — Ricky & Lucy Moore – Learn to forgive. First you “say” you forgive, then you really do forgive them. Culture and gender can play an important role in forgiveness and the willingness to do so. It is a decision followed by emotion, not emotion followed by decision. Prayer is key to forgiveness. – December 13, 2008 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 002 — Chris & Carmen Garner – “Covenant” – Marriage is a covenant relationship, not a contractual relationship. Your participation is not based on your partner’s behavior. It is the basis to good families wich is the basis to good community. It is more important than money or goods. – December 13, 2008 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
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Volume # 001 — Starr & Bob Calo–oy – “Introduction” – This is the introductory podcast with Starr & Bob Calo–oy. Listen to the beginning segment of Marriage 101 on KKYX Radio 680am in San Antonio, Texas. Find out why they do what they do. – December 6, 2008 – (time ≈ 60 min.)
Guest Web Site: www.caregiversadvice.net & www.marriage101.net
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